White men repulse me. I have not done a deep dive into this so I feel like tonight I want to tackle the reasons I am so repulsed by white men.
It all starts with this kid named Jimmy. He was white like really white skin and he had that platinum blonde hair. I also did not particularly like him. He was a year older than me and he was obnoxious. I only interacted with him on the 45 minute bus ride home from school. So when I was in 7th grade and he was in 8th I remember a friend of mine drew a picture of me playing the saxophone, which I used to play, and he took the picture and erased the saxophone and put in a boy and made it look like I was sucking his dick. That was the first of that kind of nonsense I experienced but he quickly took things up a notch when one afternoon he pulled his dick on for me to see. I remember seeing it almost jump out of his pants and seeing the platinum blond pubic hair and wanting to vomit. I was absolutely disgusted.
Then comes Dan, best thing I can say about Dan was he had a good heart but he was a straight up rebel flag flying hillbilly. He ended up fucking my best friend. I think back to him and I am repulse by him now, but at the time I did not feel that way. He was very uneducated and his family lacked formal education.
There was Joe, smallest dick I have ever seen also closet bi-sexual who like to frequent gay sex parties. This repulsed me a lot at the time and now. It was hard for me to understand how a man could be attracted to me and also a man.
But I still was not completely turned off by white men yet.
There was this other Joe, turned out one night when he told me we were “going to his friends” that we were breaking an entering to have sex. He was needy and not what I would want from a man. He was also always ready for a fight but really could not fight. Just kind of pathetic in some ways. I know I am highlighting the bad here, that was like a 3 year relationship and looking back that is all I can take from it.
I was close to turning the corner here but then enter my 1st husband, S, and he put the nail in the coffin. When we were first together things were really great. Sex was good, but he started having problems with performance and told me to go out and get what I needed. (More about him Later) So I did. At first I was seeing a man 20 years older than me who was white. He had a great dick but was also really uptight and he got mad at me for something stupid and ended our friends with benefits situation. Thinking about that it must have been really upsetting to him because he was like 42 and I was 20 and I was a sexual freak and I was totally into him.
Then there was the white cop. He was a sick son of a bitch, but I had a good time. Him and I used to meet in random parking lots and he would give me lessons on how to suck a dick. I mean this was intense training. I think we saw each other randomly for about 4 years. He only fucked me once. The one time he fucked me he had his gun out ( to help intimidate me). I don’t even think he finished. All the other times I saw him, which was about 1x a week, he would finger my pussy and my ass, nipple torture, fuck me with different objects and he ultimately arranged my first gang bang, that was all black!
He was the last white man I had sex with. At the gang bang I immediately noticed the difference in the white men I have known and the black men in the room. And there were an exquisite group of black professionals with giant dicks and fucking skills. They fucked different, they talked different about my body, they reveled in my thick curves, they were just so much less uptight than everyone I have ever know and did I mention they had some fucking skills…
So then there is my white husband at the time. He found out about the fucking black mend and he was pissed. I just saw this really inferior white man in front of me angry that I enjoyed some black dick. I did not see what the problem was…if I was able to get dick outside the marriage why not black dick. He reaction deepened the repulsion I started to feel. It was this crazy white man ideal that white women can’t have black dick. I have heard it all my life. There is this stereotype of woman who likes black men and I do not fit that stereotype and white men like have a secret vow that once you fuck a black man they don’t want you anymore. I suspect this is because they feel inferior to black men and it makes them feel like they cannot satisfy a women. White men will call you fat, obsess over body shape size, and body imperfections. Black men might do this too but not in the same way. I don’t want to get into a whole race relations but suffice it to say there are some deep issues with white men, DEEP. Im sure black men have issue too but this is just my perspective and experience. I also know white men in a different way then I know black men. I grew up with white boy and white men. I know how they think - I get them. And what I get about them I don’t like.