I saw the neighbor yesterday. I had my period and it was lite so I was fine with it and the neighbor always says it is fine. I did not particularly want sex at all but I had a headache and I was really hoping a few orgasms would take it away, as it usually will. I was laying on the bed when he made is way upstairs to my room, scrolling through tik too while he took off his clothes. He comes over and I lay on my back and suck his dick. This is a nice way to do it. On my knees does not allow for good angles and I am not particularly relaxed, but on my back with my head on the edge of the bed and his dick above me allowed me to access it better, get more of it in my mouth and I was enjoying it. Then I wanted the dick. It does not take much for my switch to get turned for me to be like "ok now I need that dick". He asks me how I want it and with him I love on my knees on the edge of the bed. It allows me to not touch him and focus on me.
I savor the moments as he pushes his dick in me. My body had been so in need. Its not long before we have a good rhythm and I am blissfully just enjoying the consistency of the fuck and letting my body relax. We fuck like that for a long time or maybe 10 minutes but long considering and then he wants me on my side. This is like an immediate orgasm and he gets inside, but he mentions that there is blood and I am cool with that, I expected it and I have the plastic barrier on my bed. Im used to cleaning sheets. We keep fucking, I squirt a little bit while he is inside me and I feel him getting ready to cum. I cant tell when he comes, I feel the build up. The build up is very intense, his body tenses up, his breathing changes but there is not indicator when he comes. In fact it is very underwhelming. I have become more ok with him coming in me but I want to know it is happening. I want that "cum in my pussy" moment.
He finish and he tells me "it is a mess". Now I have an idea of what a mess might look like. The time D and I had a fucking 3 hour fuck session when I had my period and squirted all over and my bed was covered in red dots of blood from the squirting, or when D has pissed on me, or some anal play fails. I am not stranger to a mess. I get up and there is literally 2 spots of blood about a size of a quarter each. That's It! This is something that keeps my guard up with him. He says he is cool with blood and all the things that could happen with sex and especially anal but he is very clean and seems a little uptight about it. Its not that D and I are not clean, it just laying around in bodily fluids for a few minutes does not makes up blink an eye and that makes me comfortable and more likely to let go. But the dick was great! I'm not complaining!
Still no call from D. I dont think about him all day, in fact, he just now popped into my head and I came here to let it out. I dont know what is going on and I am holding on tight to the things he told me the last time. He told me (in summary) that it is not me, I did nothing wrong, he did not meet someone else, he is physically fine, he just is stressed and just does not want to have a conversation right now. He told me not to make up stories about what it could be and to know that he loves me.
Good Lord - I have given this man so much grace. Part of me feels like I have grown so much that I am not trying to aggravate the situation and hunt him down and make him communicate with me. Not that I dont want to, I just have exercised a lot of self control. I see growth in myself in the way that I love someone by meeting them where they are at instead of dragging where I want them to be. And in the same moment I am sickened by my down-trodden devotion to him. I pause to think of the times he has met me where I am at, and I compare him to others, and I feel this tightness in my chest. This heat in my heart that works it way to my belly and it just refuses to let my body move on until I acknowledge it.
Am I kidding myself? Is this all a farce and this is not love? Have I clung to him for some other reason than love?
Moving along, my kids are driving me crazy with all their emotions and the end of year woes. And JF will not give me money and I am hesitating to take him to court but I know that will probably where we will end up. That is so tragic to me. Two people make two children and love each other and spend 10 sharing our life together for him to be Fuck You and the Kids. To use his own words -"God will punish him".
I desperately seeking distractions. Keep commenting. I dont want to post comments. Comments are sometimes, phone numbers or emails, and sometimes they feel like a personal conversation. It is weird to me the details that I omit on here or even in other places in my life. I share a lot on here but there are still secrets I cant share, that I hold to myself.
I wish I could share this sadness I feel in my body, I wish someone to help me hold it or better yet that D would just call and alleviate it. It would take mere seconds for the lightness to return to my body.